8 Signs A Guy Is Serious About Marriage

Are you in a relationship and you are confused if your partner is serious about getting married to you or he is just catching a cruise with you or one of those time wasters that all they want to do is to have sex with you and then dump you? If you are in such a situation, then, this article is written for you, in it, you will discover 8 signs a guy is serious about marriage.

Some time ago, a lady approached me and asked me how she would know that a guy is serious about marriage.

She told me that a guy is coming for her and she is worried if the guy is serious with her or one of those hit-and-run guys.

So, I told her some things, I showed her about 8 signs a guy is serious about marriage and not one of those sex predators or time wasters of guys.

Maybe as a lady, you are in this kind of situation. You are in a relationship with a guy but you are not sure if this guy is serious about marriage or has come to waste your time and drive away potential suitors. 8 signs a guy is serious about marriage article is for you.

In this article, what I intend to do is to show you how you can spot a guy that is serious about marriage and wants to walk down the aisle with you. You need to take this seriously because your time, prime, resources, and potential life suitors are at stake.

One wrong guy in a relationship with you will waste your time, and resources, and drive away or block other guys that want to settle down with you.

So, how will you know that guy that’s promising you heaven and earth is serious about marriage or he just wants to get between your pants, I present to you 8 signs a guy is serious about marriage.

1. He will introduce you to important people in his life

When a guy is serious about marriage, he doesn’t play hide and seeks games. He will waste no time in introducing you to people that matter in his life. He will introduce you to his parents, mentors, pastor, colleagues, friends, etc.

If you have been dating a guy for some time now, say 2 years or 3 years, and you don’t know who his parents are, you don’t know any of his siblings, colleagues, or friends, and whenever you bring up the issue, he will change the topic, you have to be careful, he may be one of those sex predators guys.

2. He will also want to meet important people in your life

A guy that is serious about marriage will not only introduce you to important people in his life but will also like to meet important people in your own life to make things official and formal.

When you are in a relationship with a guy that’s doing hide and seek with you, whenever you bring up the issue of him coming to meet your parents, see your mentor or pastor, he will divert the conversation or runoff, then you should know that he is not serious about marriage.

You should not waste your time with a guy that for 2 or 3 years has refused to meet your parents or important people in your life. Don’t do that. When a guy wants to marry you, it does take him long before he knows that you are the one for him.

3. He will stay with you even without sex

For many guys, their main aim for entering into a relationship is to have sex. They are not interested in getting married to you or having anything serious with you. They just want to have sex as much as possible and then, off they go.

Some of them will tell you, “If you love me, prove it.” That is, if you say you love them, you should have sex with them. Don’t listen to them. Sex is not proof of love.

Some of them once you tell them that, there will be no sex until after marriage, they will run off without looking back. Some of them will even threaten you that if you don’t have sex with them, they will break up with you.

But when you tell a guy that there will be no sex until after marriage and he still stays with you, he does not disturb you for sex, he doesn’t threaten to leave if you don’t have sex with him, and he doesn’t cheat on you with other ladies, that may be a sign that he is serious about getting married to you.

Also Read: How To Determine Sexual Compatibility Without Having Sex

One of the ways to know a guy that is serious about marriage is to close your legs. If he continues with you, there are chances he wants to marry you, he wants something to have something more than sex with you.

As a lady, one thing you need to know is that sex doesn’t keep a man. If a man doesn’t want to stay with you, give him all sex styles in the world, doggy style, horse style, scorpion style, cat style, scissors, etc., he will not stay. A guy that wants you will stay with or without sex. Close your legs!

4. He will include you in his plans and major decisions in life

When a guy is serious about marriage, he will include you in his plans and major decisions in life, he will tell you about his plans and decisions he wants to make, sometimes he will seek your ideas and suggestions, and advice.

That means, he is seeing you in his future but when you are with a guy that hides things from you, he never tells you his next move or actions or his whereabouts, he just shows up and disappears anytime he wants, that’s a guy that is not sure of the future with you.

A man wants to marry a woman that will be useful to his future, so when a guy includes you in his plans and decisions, he wants you to be part of that future.

A man doesn’t go about sharing his plans with anyone that cares to listen but with those, we consider important to us. The point is when a guy includes you in his plans and decisions, he plans the future with you, he is seeing the future with you.

5. He will talk about marriage

One of the signs a guy is serious about marriage is that he will talk about marriage, he will make his intentions known to you, and he will define the relationship. You will know where the relationship is heading to.

Also Read: Factors To Consider Before Marrying Anyone

If you have been dating a guy for the past 2 to 3 years and he has never said anything about marriage, the relationship is not defined, you people are just there to see how things go, that may be a guy wasting your time and driving away other serious suitors.

6. He will be vulnerable

One of the important signs a guy is serious about marriage is that he will be sincere and honest with you. In other words, he will be vulnerable to you. What does this mean? It means that he doesn’t hide things from you, he’s not faking anything to you, and he’s sincere and honest about who he is and what he is. He doesn’t pretend to be who or what he’s not to impress you. He reveals his secrets and weaknesses.

Also Read: Should I Tell My Partner Everything?

A guy doesn’t open up his life to someone he doesn’t want to have anything serious with. When you are with a guy that lies and hides things from you and pretends to be what he’s not, that guy may not be serious with you.

7. He will make you a priority

Another crucial sign a guy is serious about marriage is that he will make you a priority. The things we consider important are the things we make a priority.

When you are a priority to someone…

He gives you attention

You give attention to something important to you, to something that interests you, something that occupies your heart, and something that attracts your mind. When a guy is serious about marriage, he will give you attention.

He will have time for you

We have time for everything, so anyone that doesn’t create time to be with you is not into you. Stop begging people to make time for you. If they consider you important, they will have time for you.

He cares about you

When someone is into you, they will make efforts to ensure that you are good, safe, okay, comfortable and all of that, they will call you to know how you’re doing, how your day is going and they will be concerned about your well-being.

He communicates as often as possible with you

When someone is into you, they will be in regular communication with you, they will call you, they will chat with you, they will text you as the case may be just to hear from you.

8. Pray about it

So far, we have discussed 7 signs a guy is serious about marriage. This number 8 is one of the most important ways to know a guy that is serious about marriage and that is prayer.

Prayer is the master key. So, for your time not to be wasted, for you not to chase away suitors, for your heart not to get broken, before you venture into a relationship with anyone subject it to God in prayers for divine leading.

“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:” (Matthew 7:7 KJV)

“The secret things belong unto the Lord our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law”.(Deuteronomy 29:29 KJV)

If you are in a relationship with a guy and you are not sure if this guy is God’s will or even serious about marriage, you have some prayers to do.

This is one of the reasons why it is important that before you enter into a relationship with a man or woman, you have a relationship with God so you will be able to receive divine direction and guidance.

In Conclusion

There are always signs a guy is serious about marriage, all you need to do is pay close attention to these signs. When a guy wants you, you will know it, you will feel it. The signs will be there.

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